20 weeks already..

harini genap 20 weeks usia my BFF.. ramai yang kata perut saya masih tak berapa nampak. ada kawan2 yang bercerita, masa diorang pregnant, 3-4 bulan dah tak boleh sarung baju kurung. ada banyak alergi dan macam2 lagi. alhamdulillah, syukur rasanya sebab tak alami benda2 macam tu. pakaian kerja masih macam biasa lagi, cuma Uniform tu rasanya dah tak boleh la, sebab baju tu memang ikut shape badan. mesti sangkut tang perut nanti..hehe3..

cuma, sejak seminggu ni, rasanya badan lemah je. orang kata dah masuk 2nd trimester ni kita makin kuat. tapi, kadang2 rasa loya tu datang balik, cuma tak la seteruk awal2 dulu. selera makan pun kurang sikit.. makan sikit pun tak habis. bila kat rumah selalunya rasa semput je nak bernafas tu. rasanya macam belum sarat lagi, tapi mengah je rasanya. bukankah masih awal? ada sape2 yang dapat membantu ke?

setakat ni terfikir jugak nak mula nak shopping barang2 BFF, tapi tak reti macamana nak mula la pulak.. yang ada sekarang cuma cloth diapers (CD) je yang hubby dah beli. yang lain tu belum lagi. banyak jugak membaca blog kawan2, mencari idea apa dan bila nak membeli.. kebanyakannya dah membeli bila masuk 5 bulan, sebab katanya bile kandungan dah mencecah 7 bulan, semuanya kena ready sebab apa2 pun boleh jadi. tambahan pulak ini pengalaman sulung saya, susah jugak nak mengagak.

ada yang kata, beli sikit2. barulah tak terasa duit yang keluar macam air terjun tuh.. mungkin beli keperluan yang besar dulu contohnya katil, stroller, set tidur (tilam, bantak, dsb.).. baju tu rasanyat ak perlua banyak sangat sebab baby kan cepat besar. nanti tak sempat dia bak pakai semuanya, badan dah naik.. dan mungkin jugak ramai kawan2 dan family yang akan bagi hadiah jugak, kan..heheh..angan2 je lebih.. suri jugak ada dapatkan checklist barang2 yang perlu ada, tapi bila tengok semua tu, rasa macam kelakar sikit la..sebab banyak yang aku tak tahu dari yang aku tahu..aduhai..macamana ni. kalau saya pun tak tau, jangan harap lah nak tunjukkan checklist tu kat daddy-to-be tu.. setakat ni saya dah dapatkan 2 checklist, antaranya:

Coming Home: First weeks with your baby



Clothing
8 undershirts or onesies (mix of short-sleeve and long-sleeve)
5 nightgowns (for use until the cord falls off)
8 one-piece stretchy sleepers (go for ones with zippers; new moms swear by them!)
5 pairs of pants
2 newborn hats
8 pairs of socks or booties, to wear with nightgowns and outfits
2 pairs of scratch mittens, to keep baby from scratching his face
2 cardigans or jackets, more in winter
Bunting bag or snowsuit for winter baby


Laundry detergent for infants
4 outfits for dressing up (optional)


Blankets
3 large cotton blankets
8 receiving blankets (they also make handy burp cloths)


Feeding
If you’re breastfeeding, you don’t really need any equipment.
Some nursing mothers like to have these items:
Lots of bibs
Burp cloths
Breast pump
Milk storage containers
Nursing pillow
Nursing bras (if buying before baby is born, buy one cup size larger than your pregnant bra size)
Breast pads (disposable or washable)
Lotion for sore nipples


Diapering
If you are using re-usable cloth diapers:
Several dozen (4 or 5) cloth or re-usable diapers
8 waterproof covers
1 diaper pail
Changing pad
Baby ointment or other barrier cream to prevent rash
Snaps, Velcro or safety pins to secure re-usable diapers
Disposable wipes or a couple dozen washcloths for cleaning baby’s bottom


If you are using disposable diapers:
Two boxes of newborn-size diapers (it’s better not to buy too many in advance in case your baby is large or grows quickly)
1 diaper pail
Changing pad
Baby ointment or barrier cream to prevent rash
Disposable wipes or a couple dozen washcloths for cleaning baby’s bottom


Bathtime
1 plastic infant tub (or use a large dishpan in the sink, or take baby in the bath with you)
12 washcloths, not used on baby’s bottom
Baby soap or cleanser
Baby shampoo
Baby soft-bristled hair brush
3 soft-hooded towels


Bedtime
If you are using a crib:
Approved crib and crib mattress
3 waterproof mattress covers
4 fitted cribsheets
4 light blankets that fit in the crib


Sleep sack
If you are co-sleeping:
Firm mattress (not a waterbed)
3 waterproof pads to place under baby
Light comforter (keep away from baby's head)
Sleep sack


Other necessities
Approved infant safety seat for car
Stroller that reclines so newborn can lie flat
Nail clippers or scissors (or just bite off baby’s nails as needed)
Bulb syringe for suctioning mucous
Baby thermometer
Eye dropper or medicine spoon
Medication in case of fever


Nice-to-have items
Change table (or just use change pad on top of dresser or bed)
Rocking chair for feeding and swaddling
Playpen
Sling or baby carrier
Diaper bag
1 or 2 change pads
Plastic hangers for closet
Sun shade for car windows
2 or 4 pacifiers (if you choose to use these)
Rattles and other baby toys
Mobiles
Night light

:: ni dapat dari blog Haniff, penyampai radio Era tu..katanya Nana (ex penyampai X-Fresh yang kasi kat dia).. thanks ye.

dan lagi satu boleh dapat kat sini.. dan rasanya yang ni lebih mudah kot..hehe..jugak hospital checklist. kat blog ni jugak saya banyak mempelajari tentang ilmu CD dan breastfeeding. boleh la jenguk2 untuk dapatkan info. sebab tuan tanah bercerita based on dia punya experience. lagi senang nak paham.. ada lagi seorang, kakak kita yang bersemangat betul memperjuangkan breastfeeding ni. tapi suri lupa kat mana address dia..nanti suri akan update balik ye..

apapun, rasanya kerja2 melicinkan wallet tuan gabenor akan dilakukan selepas kami berdua balik dari Kursus Induksi di Perak, hujung bulan nanti. kebetulan masa tu suri akan ke Shah Alam. so, lagi meriah la pilihannya,kan.. insya allah.. semoga dipermudahkan..

esok pagi hubby akan balik, dan kami akan bertolak ke Perak, untuk kursus selama 2minggu. harapnya semua berjalan dengan baik..

notahati: mood tak berapa bagus la.. blame it to hormon!!!